Wow! What a Week....

Mom had a seizure on Monday. Usually when this happens, and mind you, it doesn't happen often, I do my best to keep her comfortable but I call for an ambulance. The last time I took her to emergency, her doctor (by telephone) says to the emergency room attending physician...who then relayed it to me, "I don't understand why they rush her in. They know she is going to come out of it eventually. This is no different than times in the past." Well, thank you very much but I DON'T know she is going to come out of it and I DON'T know that it is exactly the same situation that she has gone through before. There is always a chance of stroke or worse. Why is it that some doctors and other medical professionals that care for our loved ones - our senior citizens show so little compassion? They are not paying for the care of those we love. I will never forget the first time it happened back in 2005, one doctor put her face so close to my Mom's face their noses were almost touching and she actually said out loud, "I can see she was once very beautiful." EXCUSE ME??? First of all, she has Alzheimer's...she is NOT deaf and SHE IS STILL BEAUTIFUL. After asking her into the hallway to point out how I felt about her statement, she still kept going on and on about why she used the phrase she did, so I asked her to leave.

Anyway, this time just as I was planning to stay calm, pray, keep her comfortable and wait until she came out of the seizure, wouldn't you know it - SOMETHING NEW HAPPENED. She began to vomit profusely. I prayed as I pulled her forward so that she would not choke, removed her dentures and began to clear her airways. As usually, God was right there to bring us through the situation. My brother, 2 of my nephews and 2 of my nieces came to assist and I was so greatful. I still called for an ambulance because of this new situation but believe it not, there were no ambulances available due to major accidents on the highway. When I called 911 the second time as a bit of time had passed, the 911 Operator was so kind and apologetic, even trying to obtain assistance from Warrensville Heights but to no avail. I explained to her that Mom had regained conscienceness. I have kept a close eye on her this week. What an amazing specimen she is! In just about 2 weeks she will be 93 years old! Pound for pound her body is still strong. I just thank God everyday for these precious years I have had with her. Thanks to all those that read my Blog and offer prayers. Bless you.

I Had The Loveliest Experience Yesterday!

I was doing some work for The Gold Guys, and by the way, if you haven't had the chance to come to one of their 5 locations with your unwanted gold or stamped Sterling Silver, NOW'S THE TIME. Gold went up 5 weeks straight, then down just a tiny bit and now it is holding steady...so stop on by and/or plan a Gold Party! They are so much fun. Check them out on the web at www.gold-guys.com. But back to the topic at hand. Since I returned back to Ohio to care for Mom in 2005 I have rarely run into anyone from my past AND I'M ALWAYS LOOKING. I have seen my prom date...my attorney...the gentleman mentioned in my last post...ONE lady I attended high school with (just one), until yesterday. In walked a young lady that I used to have so much fun with, and later she became my attorney's fiance. It was marvelous to see her and catch up a bit and I am looking forward to spending more time with her now that God has brought us back together again. She and her family always had their fingers on the pulse of Cleveland as upstanding individuals, involved in a variety of things economic, cultural and social. I remember her always being creative, artistic and full of life. I thank God for making life interesting for me each and everyday, and thank Him for the little happy surprises of life. I hope you are feeling His goodness. STAY PRAYERFUL AND POSITIVE MY FRIENDS. There's power in that! ADIOS.

And Then There's Love...

I'm finding the dating scene to be very different from when I was single 100 years ago. In fact, it seems more cyber-dating is taking place than actual dating nowadays. It makes me wonder why people are not interacting...one on one...face to face. Guys approach me often but they don't seem able to offer more than compliments. They begin the conversation with, "Hi! You're very attractive." Then I say, "Hi! Thank you very much." PAUSE or for those of us into the writings of David, SELAH. hahaha I then may muster up the next sentence, something about the weather or the crowd at the register or whatever. Then from there they continue on to expound upon whatever I have mentioned. They don't offer their name or a hand to shake or name and telephone number and I'm sorry if this sounds old fashioned, but I don't think it should be my responsibility to do that so once again...SELAH and no connection. I dated one gentleman a bit but he was hiding a disturbing habit and you know God does not want us to be in darkness so as it was revealed...I POLITELY BOWED OUT. Everyone, at least I think everyone, wants someone to care about them, call during the day, hold hands with, etc. though I thoroughly understand a woman on her own is just FINE (thank you daughters). But I am thankful to say God has brought someone back into my life from many years ago and we were very comfortable with each other before so who knows. I think it gives me great peace that we already had a lovely rapport once upon a time but as the song says, "Nice and easy does it every time." No need for either of us to rush. Those of you desiring a mate, here is the best advice, STAY PRAYERFUL. And if God brings you someone, BE PRAYERFUL TOGETHER. He is truly the glue. God is love and love is wonderful at any age.

Tribute To Henry Washington

When I met my father-in-law some 32 years ago, there were several things I noticed right away, he loved his wife, he almost never left his green, tufted living room chair and everyone that entered his home had to eat something. He was what you would call the salt of the earth type of person and I appreciated many things about him. If he knew you needed something, he did his best to help you and one of my fondest memories was when I was managing a law firm not far from his home. I needed a tire on my car but had not been able to afford one. I had only been married a few years and had a new baby. But when my boss came in, he said, "I enjoyed talking to your father-in-law today." That confused me because I did not know my boss knew Dad. Then he went on to say, "He's downstairs putting a new tire on your car." That's the Henry Washington I loved. Oh there were times when he was feisty and pig-headed but you just had to overlook that and admire him for being a caring, responsible man. Before Mom passed, he took her to plan her funeral and he did the same for himself, right down to matching his suit with the draperies in the room he picked to be viewed in. He always wanted to plan and pay for everything with cash; a sign of living through The Depression I presume. At 94, he had lived a long and full life and I knew he was now at peace and probably enjoying being with Mom again and both of his sons. But as memories flooded to my mind at his funeral, tears filled my eyes. I kept thinking of the times he sat with my parents and how he and my Dad enjoyed fishing together. I hope he and Daddy take time now, to sit together once more, and fish in the abundance of God's Heavenly streams.

Look out Cleveland, Micah is driving....

Praise the Lord! Micah passed his permit test and is now my official chauffer. I can tell he is not going to take this opportunity for granted. Oh how this brings back memories of the days when my precious Dad took the time, each day after work, to spend time with me. Showing me the techniques of the task, being patient as I made blunders. He was such a wonderful man. I bet each one of my sibblings, in fact, even one of my nieces had the same maneuvering difficult at the same location. The people that live near this location finally had a metal guard put up. hahaha I guess it is something about that area and how the ice forms but we all, as new drivers, slid upon the curb in front of that house. My Dad never yelled and I am sure there were days he really gripped the sides of his seat or tried to put on the brakes as he rode in the passenger seat. I always thank God for giving me such a wonderful Dad and I pray that I will be able to take his example and use it to train and encourage my son. Beep....Beep...Look Out...Student Driver Is On The Move!

Well, It's Been Difficult To Discuss But I Must Say Goodbye To My Faithful Companion

A TRIBUTE TO CHEWCHY

I miss you so much...your sweet little kisses and your warmth. May you rest in peace my sweetheart. I, along with so many others will never forget you. I thank God for our time together, in fact, I did that daily because you brought me so much joy. I thank God for giving me the chance to pray over you one last time and to say "Goodbye my sweet boy...Mommy loves you so much."

It Is Always Great To Put A Face With A Name

I have had the pleasure of meeting sooooo many of you fantastic Fish Listeners on Saturdays and Sundays at The Gold Guys Events. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR COMING OUT and letting it be known that you heard of The Gold Guys via The Fish. Louise, Roseanne, Jane, Kim and Georgia...Thanks for the e-mails you have sent to me. Your kind words are so uplifting. And it has made me so happy that each of you were able to make money from jewelry items you were no longer using or were no longer wearable. What The Gold Guys are doing in providing a company of Integrity...a place of Comfort and Convenience...employees that treat you with Respect and are ever so happy to see you is phenomenal!!! You may not know this but I started out as a customer too so I know how you feel coming in..and how you feel going out. This is a testament to the many, many repeat customers The Gold Guys have. So again, I THANK YOU for coming out and for your kind words. Please spread the word so others can benefit and keep listening to The Fish, checking The Mom Squad Blog & Forum AND I hope to see you at the next Mom Squad Event. Blessings.